and do you know why? gossip. the chatty, insecure type of gossip.
when i first began listening to her speak, my heart hurt for her. but then, about 1/2 way through the conversation, it occurred to me how silly everything was. i kept wondering why this strong, incredible women even CARED about what others were saying about her. after attempting to encourage her, i had a very strong desire to change the subject and get off the phone. i was disappointed in one of my heros and it upset me. she wasn't as cool as i thought and that confused me.
i went to bed that night still thinking about our conversation. am i so self-absorbed that i simply don't care what others think? is my admirable friend right to be upset? or does she need to "get a life"? - harshly put, i know.
it's hard when you find a weakness in people you admire. as the days have passed since our phone call, i've rested my mind by reminding myself that EVERYONE has feelings. everyone hurts. it's ok that my friend was upset. i'm honored she called me for advice. but, people, seriously. stop giving a rat's butt what people think of or say about you. it's your weirdness and strength in owning that weirdness that makes people love you.
SO! with that all said, i've been collecting a few things this week to share with you. some are fun and some are deep. all are admirable:
- the patience that goes into this artwork is mind-blowing.
- a list that i am on board with. preach it people.
- a funny take on what life will be like when we are elderly.
- this local boy is incredible. i want to squeeze him.
- bookmark this. use it everyday... except when you want to eat fast food.
have a great weekend friends! get on with your bad self!
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